As you've seen in the previous postings we have explored the moral stance, legality of abortion as well as it's psychological and physiological effects on individuals. We have also discussed the negative effect this possibly could have in the world because of the absence of an individual who God has ordained to do something great that would tremendously affect the lives of people for the better. This particular post will be dealing directly with unwanted pregnancies among teens and unwed individuals.
In the midst of the controversy that surrounds this issue I have noticed that not many have addressed this issue of preventing unwanted pregnancies. So I've decided to tackle this issue head on and not evade it like so many have decided to do. And since I'm not concerned about being politically correct and believe in presenting the truth as it is I'll get straight to the point.
The leading cause to unwanted pregnancies derive directly from sexual intercourse where contraceptives are either not used or fail to perform properly in preventing impregnation. The forms of protection used in the United States come with a disclaimer that clearly states that it is not full proof but only greatly reduces the risk of pregnancy as directed and enforced by the FDA. But we all know that the only way to protect oneself from becoming pregnant is by eliminated the factor that causes it...Okay, let me make this clear, abstinence. I can hear the many thoughts that are racing through your mind right now, but stay focused and remember we're talking about pregnancies amongst our children. Many will be quick to disagree or disregard this as people in general don't like to do things that cause them to be in a place of discomfort...or held accountable for their actions. But let's face it, we know this is true and make logical sense but still we say “there must be an easier way.” So I ask, is there really? Is it worth it? What's so hard about exercising self control? Have we become so weak that we dare place the blame of our own mistakes on something else? Leave me your comments and then I'll give my conclusion on this matter.
Okay your blog seems very interesting. Good for you that your not being politically correct. It's about time someone takes a stand.
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ReplyDeleteWhat you are suggesting is simply not feasible. So long as Boys and girls, men and women, have sexual desires and no societal repercussions for these actions, the general populace will never stop having sex out of wedlock. What you are asking of people is to give up a very rewarding activity (however temporary it may be) simply to avoid the occasional unwanted side affect of pregnancy. Which, by current societal standards, can very easily be remedied with a simple morning after pill, or if you are too slow with that, with an abortion. It's simply risk versus reward, and the reward, especially for young males, is viewed as very great indeed.
It is possible for a male to abstain from sexual intercourse. There had to be a thought about commiting the act before engaging in the act itself. If you focus your mind on sex, sexual activity, then that is what you want to happen. We are not machines that are preprogrammed to seek out sex. We have freewill. If all a man focusses his thoughts on nothing but sex, then that is what he will go looking for. Why do males believe that sowing their wild oats will make them, a man? Just because you have the equipment doesn't make you mature enough to use it correctly or responsible enough to deal with the consequences of the act. If that is all, a boy or man is focusing all his energy and thoughts on, maybe he should find another hobby!
ReplyDeleteGreat comments from both of you and very logical in their approach. Unfortunately as Jonas has stated the mindset of individuals today have been so desensitized that even the destruction of another life, to include their own seems to have no effect on their decision. It's as if the part of the brain that is responsible in the making of rational decisions and calculating the long term effects is either underdeveloped or damaged. Yes, as a psychology major I'm saying they may be brain damaged which is just one hypothesis.
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